Scott here, my friend Jessica agreed to help me write a little article on how to succeed with women for all you guys. But before we start, keep in mind that she does not spent hours and hours reading pickup or dating secret books for men.
This is purely her point of view as a woman. And her advice to how a guy can succeed with women. So if you want a more comprehensive guide on how to succeed with any women you desire, and then check out: Fireworks with Females.
In your effort to find out how to succeed with women, you should first know a couple things about them. The key to your success with women truly lies in how you actually deal with them, and relate to them. There is a great misconception that there are rules on how to succeed with women that will work on every woman on the face of earth.
This in fact is very far from the truth, something you may have realized from past experiences. Men really need to change their attitudes towards women if they really want to be successful in their encounters with them.
First, she is an individual and she is totally different from you and any other woman you may have been with in the past. Contrary to your thoughts as based on the creation story where God took a rib out of Adam and made Eve, a woman is not a lesser version of a man or any other ridiculous thought that you may come up with. If you behave as if the above is true then obviously she is going to leave you standing by yourself in the middle of train station, park or wherever you tried to pick her up.
Second, just as she is an individual she will more likely to be accepting of you if she feels that you are noble and worthwhile. You see, women rely greatly on their feelings and emotions and when trying to figure out how to succeed with women, understanding their emotions is a good place to start. If you can’t seem to tell what kind of mood she is in, then it may be best if you leave her until you can determine such. Saying the wrong thing at the wrong time can mean an eternal roadblock where that one woman is concerned.
Third, upon accepting that they are individuals who rely mostly on their feelings and emotions you will want to be a «big man» when she does things such as change plans, etc. Try to be understanding, even if her excuse is the poorest of excuses for anything you’ve ever heard before, do not tell her that.
Instead, tell her that you understand. Let her know that you will be available at another time. You can do whatever it is you had planned then. Even better, give her the option to choose when and what she would like to do. This act alone may give you an enormous amount of success. Women tend to like sensitive and understanding men so doing this just once may ensure that a situation like this never happens again.
Fourth, you need to be able to read between the lines. There are many women out there who will be quite upfront with you, but there are those who would rather leave little hints of what you should do. The more in tune you are with her ways of getting messages across to you, the better you off to succeed with a woman.
Fifth and final, always make her feel special and loved. There is a tendency in many relationships to have this lovely spark of vibrancy and spontaneity in the beginning which gradually dies down. How to succeed with women entails keeping the spark alive; continue being spontaneous, continue taking her out on date, and romantic experiences.
So, how to succeed with women has no one formula. It is up to you to see what that particular woman wants and needs, and to do your best to keep her happy.